A submissive phone sex caller shares his experience of total cock control

Chastity and Denial Phone Sex with Mistress June

by her pet, sunny

I am a chronic masturbator. There have been very few days since childhood when I did not orgasm at least once. Mistress June changed all that. As our journey progressed and my submission grew deeper she introduced me to chastity and denial. Now I am in constant chastity.

Male chastity frees you from masturbation.While I am not caged at this time, I am in total chastity nonetheless. Mental chastity.  My sexuality belongs to her and I can no more disobey or disappoint her than I can stop the rain. Mistress dictates every aspect of my sex life. From denying me permission to touch myself in any way for any reason to commanding me to edge relentlessly. She dictates what, when, how often, how long, toys or no toys porn or no porn, which porn, even sometimes what gender and age group I am allowed to fantasize about. Mistress has taught me through chastity that for a submissive such as myself, self-indulgence and self-gratification provide only momentary pleasure and no real sense of satisfaction.

Mistress has taught me that real and lasting pleasure through complete submission and devotion involves giving up control of my most fundamental instinct, my sexuality.

Chastity often leads to an appetite for pain play.Chastity has opened my eyes in a bunch of ways. Before I had never gone long enough without an orgasm to understand or feel actual desire. Now I go weeks without an orgasm, and when I am completely denied I have so much energy.  I have an increased focus on everything, I work harder, I exercise more, I walk my dog more often, anything to shed some energy if only temporarily. And edging now is unlike anything I ever imagined. It is as bambee said, a whole body experience.

After edging, I can hold my hand out and it is steady as a rock but internally I am trembling like a leaf, even hours later. It is unbelievable. I walk around half crazy with the need for release, and yet believe it or not, a part of me dreads to hear Mistress whisper, “Stroke for sunny, stroke for me, cum sunny, cum now…”  Chastity deepens my connection to Mistress and I don’t want it to break even temporarily. But when I do hear her whisper those words and I am finally allowed a release it is an orgasm unlike any I have ever had. My body is racked with pleasure and when the afterglow finally fades I am totally sated. It is absolutely wonderful when the best orgasms of your life occur decades after your sexual prime.

I love being in chastity for Mistress. It deepens my submission, humbles me, makes me more empathetic, and instills a discipline I don’t usually possess. Maybe most importantly it has allows me to know myself much more intimately, and to experience thoughts, feelings and sensations that I otherwise would have missed.

Thank you for reading my experience.

sunny funshine bear

(I am a fun pervert.)

Chastity Cage Phone Sex Play with bambee

Your favorite neighborhood chastity Mistress is a busy woman and I regret that my updates here are not as plentiful or frequent as I would like, but please do know that I remain committed to this site and to chastity play and to my pet, bambee.

Today I will talk about how I use a chastity cage as a tool to deepen bambee’s submission and to amuse and entertain myself.  My experiences with bambee are not meant to be universal.  I use chastity (and all tools) differently with each caller.  But this is how I use chastity with bambee ….

Miss June loves male chastity

When I play with my pet bambee, it is usually during what we call “camp”.  We usually play together about once a month when she has privacy and that play occurs over several days where we chat for 2 or 3 hours each day.  Each camp has a theme.  This month we will be having “Extreme Hypnosis Play Camp” and I will post about that one once it is complete.  It should be crazy fun!  :)  Our chastity play is confined to camp.  So bambee is uncaged for most of each month.  I am sure she would prefer to be caged 24/7, but her life situation prohibits that.  Still, she remains in chastity for most of that time even while uncaged.  (The exceptions to her chastity are necessary for her marriage.)

I have bambee cage up for me on the morning of the first day of camp and from then until the end of camp, she remains caged unless I take her out of the cage to play with her.  For me, chastity is not about deprivation or spiritual purity or anything related to bambee’s experience of the loss of her cock.  For me, chastity is always about control.  I love having total control of my playthings.  :)  It’s that simple for me.  I love having total and complete control and what I choose to do with that control will vary from day to day.

We have shared 5 day camps where we have spent as many as 12 – 15 hours playing on the phone and she has not been allowed to cum during the entire camp.  We have also had camps where I made her cum for me repeatedly, maybe even daily, I am not sure.  I do not keep track.  I think bambee would probably prefer to stay chaste, but I am not sure about that either, maybe she will comment and tell us.  Mostly, I know she is just happy to serve me in any way I like, and sometimes I like making her pop for me and sometimes I like frustrating her.  And sometimes I like hurting her, too.  :)  lol  But that is for another blog post.

I love locking my bambee as a way of making our connection physical and I think the fact that she never knows what to expect from one day to the next makes her more submissive.  What do you love about being locked?  Or about the fantasy of chastity?

As always, thanks for stopping by!  Please share your thoughts and reactions and questions in the comment section.






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