Your favorite neighborhood chastity Mistress is a busy woman and I regret that my updates here are not as plentiful or frequent as I would like, but please do know that I remain committed to this site and to chastity play and to my pet, bambee.
Today I will talk about how I use a chastity cage as a tool to deepen bambee’s submission and to amuse and entertain myself. My experiences with bambee are not meant to be universal. I use chastity (and all tools) differently with each caller. But this is how I use chastity with bambee ….
When I play with my pet bambee, it is usually during what we call “camp”. We usually play together about once a month when she has privacy and that play occurs over several days where we chat for 2 or 3 hours each day. Each camp has a theme. This month we will be having “Extreme Hypnosis Play Camp” and I will post about that one once it is complete. It should be crazy fun! :) Our chastity play is confined to camp. So bambee is uncaged for most of each month. I am sure she would prefer to be caged 24/7, but her life situation prohibits that. Still, she remains in chastity for most of that time even while uncaged. (The exceptions to her chastity are necessary for her marriage.)
I have bambee cage up for me on the morning of the first day of camp and from then until the end of camp, she remains caged unless I take her out of the cage to play with her. For me, chastity is not about deprivation or spiritual purity or anything related to bambee’s experience of the loss of her cock. For me, chastity is always about control. I love having total control of my playthings. :) It’s that simple for me. I love having total and complete control and what I choose to do with that control will vary from day to day.
We have shared 5 day camps where we have spent as many as 12 – 15 hours playing on the phone and she has not been allowed to cum during the entire camp. We have also had camps where I made her cum for me repeatedly, maybe even daily, I am not sure. I do not keep track. I think bambee would probably prefer to stay chaste, but I am not sure about that either, maybe she will comment and tell us. Mostly, I know she is just happy to serve me in any way I like, and sometimes I like making her pop for me and sometimes I like frustrating her. And sometimes I like hurting her, too. :) lol But that is for another blog post.
I love locking my bambee as a way of making our connection physical and I think the fact that she never knows what to expect from one day to the next makes her more submissive. What do you love about being locked? Or about the fantasy of chastity?
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