Chastity Cage Phone Sex Play with bambee

Your favorite neighborhood chastity Mistress is a busy woman and I regret that my updates here are not as plentiful or frequent as I would like, but please do know that I remain committed to this site and to chastity play and to my pet, bambee.

Today I will talk about how I use a chastity cage as a tool to deepen bambee’s submission and to amuse and entertain myself.  My experiences with bambee are not meant to be universal.  I use chastity (and all tools) differently with each caller.  But this is how I use chastity with bambee ….

Miss June loves male chastity

When I play with my pet bambee, it is usually during what we call “camp”.  We usually play together about once a month when she has privacy and that play occurs over several days where we chat for 2 or 3 hours each day.  Each camp has a theme.  This month we will be having “Extreme Hypnosis Play Camp” and I will post about that one once it is complete.  It should be crazy fun!  :)  Our chastity play is confined to camp.  So bambee is uncaged for most of each month.  I am sure she would prefer to be caged 24/7, but her life situation prohibits that.  Still, she remains in chastity for most of that time even while uncaged.  (The exceptions to her chastity are necessary for her marriage.)

I have bambee cage up for me on the morning of the first day of camp and from then until the end of camp, she remains caged unless I take her out of the cage to play with her.  For me, chastity is not about deprivation or spiritual purity or anything related to bambee’s experience of the loss of her cock.  For me, chastity is always about control.  I love having total control of my playthings.  :)  It’s that simple for me.  I love having total and complete control and what I choose to do with that control will vary from day to day.

We have shared 5 day camps where we have spent as many as 12 – 15 hours playing on the phone and she has not been allowed to cum during the entire camp.  We have also had camps where I made her cum for me repeatedly, maybe even daily, I am not sure.  I do not keep track.  I think bambee would probably prefer to stay chaste, but I am not sure about that either, maybe she will comment and tell us.  Mostly, I know she is just happy to serve me in any way I like, and sometimes I like making her pop for me and sometimes I like frustrating her.  And sometimes I like hurting her, too.  :)  lol  But that is for another blog post.

I love locking my bambee as a way of making our connection physical and I think the fact that she never knows what to expect from one day to the next makes her more submissive.  What do you love about being locked?  Or about the fantasy of chastity?

As always, thanks for stopping by!  Please share your thoughts and reactions and questions in the comment section.






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Chastity cage review – Birdlocked Classic and Holy Trainer V2 compared

The following article was written by my bambee, and he has agreed to answer any questions left in the comment area below.  I want to provide the following context before you read his report…  Due to life circumstances beyond his control, bambee wears his cages for relatively limited spans of time – at most, he goes a few days at a time.  Also, he is an average sized adult male, so when he reports that with some effort he is able to escape both cages without unlocking them, I assume this will be true for all under-endowed men and most men of average size, even when the cage fits properly.  Thank you for a great article, bambee! ~~ Miss June



First, a little about me. I have come to accept chastity not from my need for physical restraint per se, but more from a psychological perspective.  A cage is no longer necessary for me to remain chaste.  It is; however, a strong and pleasurable physical reminder of Mistress’s control and ownership, and my reviews are from this perspective


Now, on to the cages!


About the Birdlocked Classic male chastity cage

I’ve had the Birdlocked chastity cage (BL) for quite some time now and I like it very much. This chastity cage is made of surgical silicone, so it is soft and pliable and very comfortable. While it took a bit of time to put on at first, after several uses, I was able to do so more easily. Putting on my chastity cage has become a pleasant ritual, reminding me of who controls me. It is also quite unobtrusive under clothing.

The Birdlocked has a wide ring, which captures the balls and distends them a bit, and the piece securing the tube to the ring acts as a ball separator. I definitely feel exposed, and I’ve found this an added reminder of my vulnerability and submissiveness.

In terms of hygiene, the BL has 6 vent holes and a pee slot, which provide plenty of air circulation and makes cleaning, even while wearing, quite easy. I find this a great aspect of the design.

Security for the BL is very good, but not perfect.  I can remove it without unlocking with some effort.  But in general, it gives me a pleasant feeling of completely capturing my penis and my balls, which I enjoy.

In short, I find it an excellent cage, comfortable, secure, and easy to keep clean. These features make it great for both short and long term wear.



About the Holy Trainer V2 male chastity device

The new Holy Trainer chastity cage came out this spring, and I immediately was attracted to the design. In particular, the locking mechanism is just elegant. It consists of a locking tumbler, which secures the ring to the tube. No pad lock to bounce around. It’s look is clean and simple. Because it is made of bio sourced resin, it warms quickly to the body and is extremely comfortable. It is easy to forget you’re wearing it. Like the BL, it is unobtrusive under clothing, perhaps slightly more so.

Putting on the HT is quick and easy, and securing the lock is a breeze. Once on, it become a little like a second skin. This cage is hard, so my penis is totally isolated from any sensation.  Another plus.

Security is decent, especially if you have a high riding ball sack. Mine hang a bit low, so the unit wears a bit low, making it a little less secure. This is not an issue for me, since I would never try to escape, but it would come off relatively easily if I tried. I did end up getting the next size smaller ring (purchased separately), and that improved things quite a bit.
The one drawback I find with the HT is hygiene. It comes with only two vent holes and a pee slot, so there is relatively poor circulation, and cleaning while wearing is more difficult. I solved this quite easily by drilling 4 additional vent hole in the general location as those found on the BL. With careful vent hole placement, it looks like it came from the manufacturer this way.
To sum up the HT, I like it very much. Incredibly comfortable and easy to put on and off. It’s drawback in the hygiene department can be easily corrected. Perhaps in their next model, HT will add better ventilation.




In summary


Both the BL and HT are excellent cages, very well made and very comfortable. The hygiene issue presented by the HT can be easily corrected. While it is a close call for me (I went back and forth a bit), I give the edge to the Birdlocked, because of better hygiene and security. However, I very much like and plan to continue using the HolyTrainer, as well, because it has such an elegant design and is so comfortable.




Welcome to PhoneChastity! A new website from Mistress June


Hi playthings,

bambeepaintingThis is Mistress June from  I am an impassioned advocate of male chastity and I have long wanted to share more of my thoughts and feeling about phone chastity, but I was afraid it was beginning to take up too much space on my main website, so I built this place just for us chastity freaks!  

I plan to use this site to give you a glimpse into how phone chastity works and to show what is possible in a distance chastity relationship.

chastity sissyOne of the ways I will teach you about chastity and invite your questions and comments about your own journey is by sharing the details of my chastity training experience with one particular submissive, my pet, bambee.

Chastity is a deeply intimate power exchange and I feel very close to my bambee.  She inspired my first ever ipad painting.

male chastityPlease leave comments here to thank my bambee for participating on this site, to tell her how pretty she is, to ask any questions you may have about chastity or about my services, and to let me know your thoughts about distance chastity.  I am looking forward to hearing from you!

Also, do not be afraid to ask questions or reach out if you are new to this fetish.  My bambee was brand new to chastity when we began our journey together.  And she knew right away that she had found her place.  Her cage felt like home.  Ask her about it!  :)

Your new chastity guide,

Miss June


My number is 1 (888) 557-0355.  You must be 18 or older to call.