A submissive phone sex caller shares his experience of total cock control

Chastity and Denial Phone Sex with Mistress June

by her pet, sunny

I am a chronic masturbator. There have been very few days since childhood when I did not orgasm at least once. Mistress June changed all that. As our journey progressed and my submission grew deeper she introduced me to chastity and denial. Now I am in constant chastity.

Male chastity frees you from masturbation.While I am not caged at this time, I am in total chastity nonetheless. Mental chastity.  My sexuality belongs to her and I can no more disobey or disappoint her than I can stop the rain. Mistress dictates every aspect of my sex life. From denying me permission to touch myself in any way for any reason to commanding me to edge relentlessly. She dictates what, when, how often, how long, toys or no toys porn or no porn, which porn, even sometimes what gender and age group I am allowed to fantasize about. Mistress has taught me through chastity that for a submissive such as myself, self-indulgence and self-gratification provide only momentary pleasure and no real sense of satisfaction.

Mistress has taught me that real and lasting pleasure through complete submission and devotion involves giving up control of my most fundamental instinct, my sexuality.

Chastity often leads to an appetite for pain play.Chastity has opened my eyes in a bunch of ways. Before I had never gone long enough without an orgasm to understand or feel actual desire. Now I go weeks without an orgasm, and when I am completely denied I have so much energy.  I have an increased focus on everything, I work harder, I exercise more, I walk my dog more often, anything to shed some energy if only temporarily. And edging now is unlike anything I ever imagined. It is as bambee said, a whole body experience.

After edging, I can hold my hand out and it is steady as a rock but internally I am trembling like a leaf, even hours later. It is unbelievable. I walk around half crazy with the need for release, and yet believe it or not, a part of me dreads to hear Mistress whisper, “Stroke for sunny, stroke for me, cum sunny, cum now…”  Chastity deepens my connection to Mistress and I don’t want it to break even temporarily. But when I do hear her whisper those words and I am finally allowed a release it is an orgasm unlike any I have ever had. My body is racked with pleasure and when the afterglow finally fades I am totally sated. It is absolutely wonderful when the best orgasms of your life occur decades after your sexual prime.

I love being in chastity for Mistress. It deepens my submission, humbles me, makes me more empathetic, and instills a discipline I don’t usually possess. Maybe most importantly it has allows me to know myself much more intimately, and to experience thoughts, feelings and sensations that I otherwise would have missed.

Thank you for reading my experience.

sunny funshine bear

(I am a fun pervert.)

My intentions for this chastity website and some backstory

Total cock control.


I built this site to explore male chastity in a variety of formats. Eventually, I hope to share examples of chastity phone sex arrangements, role play scenarios for chastity play, erotic fiction centered around orgasm control, and real stories about my work with a special chastity pet that I named bambee. I also intend to share some blog posts written by bambee and perhaps in time I may also publish posts by other chastity Mistresses and callers here.

For today, I want to give you some backstory on my connection with bambee. I invited bambee to participate on this site because our journey together has been especially fun and also very meaningful and I think it offers a great perspective on what is possible for submissive phone sex callers.

Bambee came to me to explore. I named her “bambee” because she was all unsure and wobbly on her brand new fetish legs. She did not come to me seeking to be caged in chastity. Or seeking pain play. Or feminization. On our unique journey together, we have discovered that these things all draw out her most submissive, most subservient self, and that was our shared desire.


We both enjoy experiences

that make it clear that

I own her completely – heart mind and body.

During our calls, she is entirely mine.


One of the reasons we work so well together is that bambee is guileless in her devotion. She is absolutely committed to our work together and she is always open and honest with me. If I correct her in any way, she accepts my guidance with humility. If she requires my support outside of our calls, she thoughtfully sends a tribute to thank me for my time. Because bambee is not just pretending or role-playing submission – because she is genuinely submissive – we have an authentic Domme/sub relationship where I feel free to lead her in any way that pleases me.

She shares her honest reactions as any submissive should. And I take her feelings into account when I plot our course together. That is how we wound up here. With her locked for me and loving it. With me completely comfortable and confident in my ownership. We have mutual trust and that has allowed us to explore hypnosis together, too. With AMAZING results!

I invite you to follow our journey here on this site.  Posting may be sporadic and we are both busy people, but there will be continual updates.

Thanks for visiting. Please use the comment area below to share your reactions or ask any question you may have.

Talk to you soon,

Goddess June

(If you are over 18, you may call me at 1 (888) 557-0355.)