A submissive phone sex caller shares his experience of total cock control

Chastity and Denial Phone Sex with Mistress June

by her pet, sunny

I am a chronic masturbator. There have been very few days since childhood when I did not orgasm at least once. Mistress June changed all that. As our journey progressed and my submission grew deeper she introduced me to chastity and denial. Now I am in constant chastity.

Male chastity frees you from masturbation.While I am not caged at this time, I am in total chastity nonetheless. Mental chastity.  My sexuality belongs to her and I can no more disobey or disappoint her than I can stop the rain. Mistress dictates every aspect of my sex life. From denying me permission to touch myself in any way for any reason to commanding me to edge relentlessly. She dictates what, when, how often, how long, toys or no toys porn or no porn, which porn, even sometimes what gender and age group I am allowed to fantasize about. Mistress has taught me through chastity that for a submissive such as myself, self-indulgence and self-gratification provide only momentary pleasure and no real sense of satisfaction.

Mistress has taught me that real and lasting pleasure through complete submission and devotion involves giving up control of my most fundamental instinct, my sexuality.

Chastity often leads to an appetite for pain play.Chastity has opened my eyes in a bunch of ways. Before I had never gone long enough without an orgasm to understand or feel actual desire. Now I go weeks without an orgasm, and when I am completely denied I have so much energy.  I have an increased focus on everything, I work harder, I exercise more, I walk my dog more often, anything to shed some energy if only temporarily. And edging now is unlike anything I ever imagined. It is as bambee said, a whole body experience.

After edging, I can hold my hand out and it is steady as a rock but internally I am trembling like a leaf, even hours later. It is unbelievable. I walk around half crazy with the need for release, and yet believe it or not, a part of me dreads to hear Mistress whisper, “Stroke for sunny, stroke for me, cum sunny, cum now…”  Chastity deepens my connection to Mistress and I don’t want it to break even temporarily. But when I do hear her whisper those words and I am finally allowed a release it is an orgasm unlike any I have ever had. My body is racked with pleasure and when the afterglow finally fades I am totally sated. It is absolutely wonderful when the best orgasms of your life occur decades after your sexual prime.

I love being in chastity for Mistress. It deepens my submission, humbles me, makes me more empathetic, and instills a discipline I don’t usually possess. Maybe most importantly it has allows me to know myself much more intimately, and to experience thoughts, feelings and sensations that I otherwise would have missed.

Thank you for reading my experience.

sunny funshine bear

(I am a fun pervert.)

Chastity Cage Phone Sex Play with bambee

Your favorite neighborhood chastity Mistress is a busy woman and I regret that my updates here are not as plentiful or frequent as I would like, but please do know that I remain committed to this site and to chastity play and to my pet, bambee.

Today I will talk about how I use a chastity cage as a tool to deepen bambee’s submission and to amuse and entertain myself.  My experiences with bambee are not meant to be universal.  I use chastity (and all tools) differently with each caller.  But this is how I use chastity with bambee ….

Miss June loves male chastity

When I play with my pet bambee, it is usually during what we call “camp”.  We usually play together about once a month when she has privacy and that play occurs over several days where we chat for 2 or 3 hours each day.  Each camp has a theme.  This month we will be having “Extreme Hypnosis Play Camp” and I will post about that one once it is complete.  It should be crazy fun!  :)  Our chastity play is confined to camp.  So bambee is uncaged for most of each month.  I am sure she would prefer to be caged 24/7, but her life situation prohibits that.  Still, she remains in chastity for most of that time even while uncaged.  (The exceptions to her chastity are necessary for her marriage.)

I have bambee cage up for me on the morning of the first day of camp and from then until the end of camp, she remains caged unless I take her out of the cage to play with her.  For me, chastity is not about deprivation or spiritual purity or anything related to bambee’s experience of the loss of her cock.  For me, chastity is always about control.  I love having total control of my playthings.  :)  It’s that simple for me.  I love having total and complete control and what I choose to do with that control will vary from day to day.

We have shared 5 day camps where we have spent as many as 12 – 15 hours playing on the phone and she has not been allowed to cum during the entire camp.  We have also had camps where I made her cum for me repeatedly, maybe even daily, I am not sure.  I do not keep track.  I think bambee would probably prefer to stay chaste, but I am not sure about that either, maybe she will comment and tell us.  Mostly, I know she is just happy to serve me in any way I like, and sometimes I like making her pop for me and sometimes I like frustrating her.  And sometimes I like hurting her, too.  :)  lol  But that is for another blog post.

I love locking my bambee as a way of making our connection physical and I think the fact that she never knows what to expect from one day to the next makes her more submissive.  What do you love about being locked?  Or about the fantasy of chastity?

As always, thanks for stopping by!  Please share your thoughts and reactions and questions in the comment section.






My number is 1 (888) 557-0355. You must be 18 or older to call.

Submission and Chastity: a sub’s Perspective

Ms June has been training me for a while and has led me on a most wonderful journey of self discovery, a journey to the true joy and pleasure of chastity and total submission. I thank her so much for this and for allowing me to write this piece.

Submissive male chastity

First, everyone likely has different experiences with chastity. Mine may not be that common, but has led me to things I couldn’t ever have dreamed of previously. I am a submissive, and I now know that I could not experience the totality of submission without giving total control to my Mistress through chastity.

When first discussing this topic with Mistress, I was nervous, and yet couldn’t get it out of my mind. I took the plunge. As with most, there were feelings of great arousal and frustration (though for me, this was brief). Mistress, being such a wonderful guide, helped me realize that frustration was simply coming from my desire to hold on to control over the most basic of things. Then something truly extraordinary happened. I submitted to the experience and to Mistress completely.

This simple act of giving into the sacrifice opened up a whole new world – a joining of mind and body in total submission.

My horniness grew and grew to great heights, and I would submit totally to it and to Mistress. The more I would submit, the more the feelings would grow….the more they would grow, the more I would submit.

surrenderThose who have experienced the joys of edging will appreciate that the process I went through grew to whole body edging.

The feelings would grow out from my penis to my ass, to my gut, then up and down throughout my body and my mind. I would remove myself from it and my total submission opened up the fantastic experience of mind and body edging. It is absolutely indescribable. Every part of me was edging, and this experience can last for many hours. And it keeps getting better and my bond with Mistress has grown wonderfully deeper.

Then. of course, when a release is allowed, it is wonderfully mind blowing.

But that’s not all by a long shot. Chastity has allowed me to fully explore every part of me, especially my feminine side. I have become more compassionate, more empathetic, and – most importantly – more complete. It is such a wonderful thing getting to know and be in touch with all parts of me.

There’s so much more I could write about, but in closing, if you have any interest in chastity, you cannot possibly find a better guide than Ms June.




Welcome to PhoneChastity! A new website from Mistress June


Hi playthings,

bambeepaintingThis is Mistress June from EliteDomme.com.  I am an impassioned advocate of male chastity and I have long wanted to share more of my thoughts and feeling about phone chastity, but I was afraid it was beginning to take up too much space on my main website, so I built this place just for us chastity freaks!  

I plan to use this site to give you a glimpse into how phone chastity works and to show what is possible in a distance chastity relationship.

chastity sissyOne of the ways I will teach you about chastity and invite your questions and comments about your own journey is by sharing the details of my chastity training experience with one particular submissive, my pet, bambee.

Chastity is a deeply intimate power exchange and I feel very close to my bambee.  She inspired my first ever ipad painting.

male chastityPlease leave comments here to thank my bambee for participating on this site, to tell her how pretty she is, to ask any questions you may have about chastity or about my services, and to let me know your thoughts about distance chastity.  I am looking forward to hearing from you!

Also, do not be afraid to ask questions or reach out if you are new to this fetish.  My bambee was brand new to chastity when we began our journey together.  And she knew right away that she had found her place.  Her cage felt like home.  Ask her about it!  :)

Your new chastity guide,

Miss June


My number is 1 (888) 557-0355.  You must be 18 or older to call.