A submissive phone sex caller shares his experience of total cock control

Chastity and Denial Phone Sex with Mistress June

by her pet, sunny

I am a chronic masturbator. There have been very few days since childhood when I did not orgasm at least once. Mistress June changed all that. As our journey progressed and my submission grew deeper she introduced me to chastity and denial. Now I am in constant chastity.

Male chastity frees you from masturbation.While I am not caged at this time, I am in total chastity nonetheless. Mental chastity.  My sexuality belongs to her and I can no more disobey or disappoint her than I can stop the rain. Mistress dictates every aspect of my sex life. From denying me permission to touch myself in any way for any reason to commanding me to edge relentlessly. She dictates what, when, how often, how long, toys or no toys porn or no porn, which porn, even sometimes what gender and age group I am allowed to fantasize about. Mistress has taught me through chastity that for a submissive such as myself, self-indulgence and self-gratification provide only momentary pleasure and no real sense of satisfaction.

Mistress has taught me that real and lasting pleasure through complete submission and devotion involves giving up control of my most fundamental instinct, my sexuality.

Chastity often leads to an appetite for pain play.Chastity has opened my eyes in a bunch of ways. Before I had never gone long enough without an orgasm to understand or feel actual desire. Now I go weeks without an orgasm, and when I am completely denied I have so much energy.  I have an increased focus on everything, I work harder, I exercise more, I walk my dog more often, anything to shed some energy if only temporarily. And edging now is unlike anything I ever imagined. It is as bambee said, a whole body experience.

After edging, I can hold my hand out and it is steady as a rock but internally I am trembling like a leaf, even hours later. It is unbelievable. I walk around half crazy with the need for release, and yet believe it or not, a part of me dreads to hear Mistress whisper, “Stroke for sunny, stroke for me, cum sunny, cum now…”  Chastity deepens my connection to Mistress and I don’t want it to break even temporarily. But when I do hear her whisper those words and I am finally allowed a release it is an orgasm unlike any I have ever had. My body is racked with pleasure and when the afterglow finally fades I am totally sated. It is absolutely wonderful when the best orgasms of your life occur decades after your sexual prime.

I love being in chastity for Mistress. It deepens my submission, humbles me, makes me more empathetic, and instills a discipline I don’t usually possess. Maybe most importantly it has allows me to know myself much more intimately, and to experience thoughts, feelings and sensations that I otherwise would have missed.

Thank you for reading my experience.

sunny funshine bear

(I am a fun pervert.)

Chastity Cage Phone Sex Play with bambee

Your favorite neighborhood chastity Mistress is a busy woman and I regret that my updates here are not as plentiful or frequent as I would like, but please do know that I remain committed to this site and to chastity play and to my pet, bambee.

Today I will talk about how I use a chastity cage as a tool to deepen bambee’s submission and to amuse and entertain myself.  My experiences with bambee are not meant to be universal.  I use chastity (and all tools) differently with each caller.  But this is how I use chastity with bambee ….

Miss June loves male chastity

When I play with my pet bambee, it is usually during what we call “camp”.  We usually play together about once a month when she has privacy and that play occurs over several days where we chat for 2 or 3 hours each day.  Each camp has a theme.  This month we will be having “Extreme Hypnosis Play Camp” and I will post about that one once it is complete.  It should be crazy fun!  :)  Our chastity play is confined to camp.  So bambee is uncaged for most of each month.  I am sure she would prefer to be caged 24/7, but her life situation prohibits that.  Still, she remains in chastity for most of that time even while uncaged.  (The exceptions to her chastity are necessary for her marriage.)

I have bambee cage up for me on the morning of the first day of camp and from then until the end of camp, she remains caged unless I take her out of the cage to play with her.  For me, chastity is not about deprivation or spiritual purity or anything related to bambee’s experience of the loss of her cock.  For me, chastity is always about control.  I love having total control of my playthings.  :)  It’s that simple for me.  I love having total and complete control and what I choose to do with that control will vary from day to day.

We have shared 5 day camps where we have spent as many as 12 – 15 hours playing on the phone and she has not been allowed to cum during the entire camp.  We have also had camps where I made her cum for me repeatedly, maybe even daily, I am not sure.  I do not keep track.  I think bambee would probably prefer to stay chaste, but I am not sure about that either, maybe she will comment and tell us.  Mostly, I know she is just happy to serve me in any way I like, and sometimes I like making her pop for me and sometimes I like frustrating her.  And sometimes I like hurting her, too.  :)  lol  But that is for another blog post.

I love locking my bambee as a way of making our connection physical and I think the fact that she never knows what to expect from one day to the next makes her more submissive.  What do you love about being locked?  Or about the fantasy of chastity?

As always, thanks for stopping by!  Please share your thoughts and reactions and questions in the comment section.






My number is 1 (888) 557-0355. You must be 18 or older to call.

Chastity cage review – Birdlocked Classic and Holy Trainer V2 compared

The following article was written by my bambee, and he has agreed to answer any questions left in the comment area below.  I want to provide the following context before you read his report…  Due to life circumstances beyond his control, bambee wears his cages for relatively limited spans of time – at most, he goes a few days at a time.  Also, he is an average sized adult male, so when he reports that with some effort he is able to escape both cages without unlocking them, I assume this will be true for all under-endowed men and most men of average size, even when the cage fits properly.  Thank you for a great article, bambee! ~~ Miss June



First, a little about me. I have come to accept chastity not from my need for physical restraint per se, but more from a psychological perspective.  A cage is no longer necessary for me to remain chaste.  It is; however, a strong and pleasurable physical reminder of Mistress’s control and ownership, and my reviews are from this perspective


Now, on to the cages!


About the Birdlocked Classic male chastity cage

I’ve had the Birdlocked chastity cage (BL) for quite some time now and I like it very much. This chastity cage is made of surgical silicone, so it is soft and pliable and very comfortable. While it took a bit of time to put on at first, after several uses, I was able to do so more easily. Putting on my chastity cage has become a pleasant ritual, reminding me of who controls me. It is also quite unobtrusive under clothing.

The Birdlocked has a wide ring, which captures the balls and distends them a bit, and the piece securing the tube to the ring acts as a ball separator. I definitely feel exposed, and I’ve found this an added reminder of my vulnerability and submissiveness.

In terms of hygiene, the BL has 6 vent holes and a pee slot, which provide plenty of air circulation and makes cleaning, even while wearing, quite easy. I find this a great aspect of the design.

Security for the BL is very good, but not perfect.  I can remove it without unlocking with some effort.  But in general, it gives me a pleasant feeling of completely capturing my penis and my balls, which I enjoy.

In short, I find it an excellent cage, comfortable, secure, and easy to keep clean. These features make it great for both short and long term wear.



About the Holy Trainer V2 male chastity device

The new Holy Trainer chastity cage came out this spring, and I immediately was attracted to the design. In particular, the locking mechanism is just elegant. It consists of a locking tumbler, which secures the ring to the tube. No pad lock to bounce around. It’s look is clean and simple. Because it is made of bio sourced resin, it warms quickly to the body and is extremely comfortable. It is easy to forget you’re wearing it. Like the BL, it is unobtrusive under clothing, perhaps slightly more so.

Putting on the HT is quick and easy, and securing the lock is a breeze. Once on, it become a little like a second skin. This cage is hard, so my penis is totally isolated from any sensation.  Another plus.

Security is decent, especially if you have a high riding ball sack. Mine hang a bit low, so the unit wears a bit low, making it a little less secure. This is not an issue for me, since I would never try to escape, but it would come off relatively easily if I tried. I did end up getting the next size smaller ring (purchased separately), and that improved things quite a bit.
The one drawback I find with the HT is hygiene. It comes with only two vent holes and a pee slot, so there is relatively poor circulation, and cleaning while wearing is more difficult. I solved this quite easily by drilling 4 additional vent hole in the general location as those found on the BL. With careful vent hole placement, it looks like it came from the manufacturer this way.
To sum up the HT, I like it very much. Incredibly comfortable and easy to put on and off. It’s drawback in the hygiene department can be easily corrected. Perhaps in their next model, HT will add better ventilation.




In summary


Both the BL and HT are excellent cages, very well made and very comfortable. The hygiene issue presented by the HT can be easily corrected. While it is a close call for me (I went back and forth a bit), I give the edge to the Birdlocked, because of better hygiene and security. However, I very much like and plan to continue using the HolyTrainer, as well, because it has such an elegant design and is so comfortable.




My intentions for this chastity website and some backstory

Total cock control.


I built this site to explore male chastity in a variety of formats. Eventually, I hope to share examples of chastity phone sex arrangements, role play scenarios for chastity play, erotic fiction centered around orgasm control, and real stories about my work with a special chastity pet that I named bambee. I also intend to share some blog posts written by bambee and perhaps in time I may also publish posts by other chastity Mistresses and callers here.

For today, I want to give you some backstory on my connection with bambee. I invited bambee to participate on this site because our journey together has been especially fun and also very meaningful and I think it offers a great perspective on what is possible for submissive phone sex callers.

Bambee came to me to explore. I named her “bambee” because she was all unsure and wobbly on her brand new fetish legs. She did not come to me seeking to be caged in chastity. Or seeking pain play. Or feminization. On our unique journey together, we have discovered that these things all draw out her most submissive, most subservient self, and that was our shared desire.


We both enjoy experiences

that make it clear that

I own her completely – heart mind and body.

During our calls, she is entirely mine.


One of the reasons we work so well together is that bambee is guileless in her devotion. She is absolutely committed to our work together and she is always open and honest with me. If I correct her in any way, she accepts my guidance with humility. If she requires my support outside of our calls, she thoughtfully sends a tribute to thank me for my time. Because bambee is not just pretending or role-playing submission – because she is genuinely submissive – we have an authentic Domme/sub relationship where I feel free to lead her in any way that pleases me.

She shares her honest reactions as any submissive should. And I take her feelings into account when I plot our course together. That is how we wound up here. With her locked for me and loving it. With me completely comfortable and confident in my ownership. We have mutual trust and that has allowed us to explore hypnosis together, too. With AMAZING results!

I invite you to follow our journey here on this site.  Posting may be sporadic and we are both busy people, but there will be continual updates.

Thanks for visiting. Please use the comment area below to share your reactions or ask any question you may have.

Talk to you soon,

Goddess June

(If you are over 18, you may call me at 1 (888) 557-0355.)


Submission and Chastity: a sub’s Perspective

Ms June has been training me for a while and has led me on a most wonderful journey of self discovery, a journey to the true joy and pleasure of chastity and total submission. I thank her so much for this and for allowing me to write this piece.

Submissive male chastity

First, everyone likely has different experiences with chastity. Mine may not be that common, but has led me to things I couldn’t ever have dreamed of previously. I am a submissive, and I now know that I could not experience the totality of submission without giving total control to my Mistress through chastity.

When first discussing this topic with Mistress, I was nervous, and yet couldn’t get it out of my mind. I took the plunge. As with most, there were feelings of great arousal and frustration (though for me, this was brief). Mistress, being such a wonderful guide, helped me realize that frustration was simply coming from my desire to hold on to control over the most basic of things. Then something truly extraordinary happened. I submitted to the experience and to Mistress completely.

This simple act of giving into the sacrifice opened up a whole new world – a joining of mind and body in total submission.

My horniness grew and grew to great heights, and I would submit totally to it and to Mistress. The more I would submit, the more the feelings would grow….the more they would grow, the more I would submit.

surrenderThose who have experienced the joys of edging will appreciate that the process I went through grew to whole body edging.

The feelings would grow out from my penis to my ass, to my gut, then up and down throughout my body and my mind. I would remove myself from it and my total submission opened up the fantastic experience of mind and body edging. It is absolutely indescribable. Every part of me was edging, and this experience can last for many hours. And it keeps getting better and my bond with Mistress has grown wonderfully deeper.

Then. of course, when a release is allowed, it is wonderfully mind blowing.

But that’s not all by a long shot. Chastity has allowed me to fully explore every part of me, especially my feminine side. I have become more compassionate, more empathetic, and – most importantly – more complete. It is such a wonderful thing getting to know and be in touch with all parts of me.

There’s so much more I could write about, but in closing, if you have any interest in chastity, you cannot possibly find a better guide than Ms June.




Welcome to PhoneChastity! A new website from Mistress June


Hi playthings,

bambeepaintingThis is Mistress June from EliteDomme.com.  I am an impassioned advocate of male chastity and I have long wanted to share more of my thoughts and feeling about phone chastity, but I was afraid it was beginning to take up too much space on my main website, so I built this place just for us chastity freaks!  

I plan to use this site to give you a glimpse into how phone chastity works and to show what is possible in a distance chastity relationship.

chastity sissyOne of the ways I will teach you about chastity and invite your questions and comments about your own journey is by sharing the details of my chastity training experience with one particular submissive, my pet, bambee.

Chastity is a deeply intimate power exchange and I feel very close to my bambee.  She inspired my first ever ipad painting.

male chastityPlease leave comments here to thank my bambee for participating on this site, to tell her how pretty she is, to ask any questions you may have about chastity or about my services, and to let me know your thoughts about distance chastity.  I am looking forward to hearing from you!

Also, do not be afraid to ask questions or reach out if you are new to this fetish.  My bambee was brand new to chastity when we began our journey together.  And she knew right away that she had found her place.  Her cage felt like home.  Ask her about it!  :)

Your new chastity guide,

Miss June


My number is 1 (888) 557-0355.  You must be 18 or older to call.